Confused, abused, and self-screwed...?

It will only escalate from here cut him loose now before he starts looking at you like his property then there'll be no stopping him. Just because you have a kid with him doesn't make this o.k. And if your family would rather see you beat up and bloody rather than being a single mother; well you should just cut them loose for now maybe thay'll come around down the road. You should think of you and your children first. Be mom to your kids. And get you son a pet. I always tell it straight and this is exactly what I would do hard or not.